It’s this kind of storytelling response to a very boring, typical question that will cause a guy to perk up and pay attention, especially if you remember to break down your story into few-second sound bites of natural pheromones. So I sent Amy back out, and on her second attempt, things started off a bit better—until she realized the guy was totally drunk, and he became aggressive when she wouldn’t drink with him. Amy was too nice in her interaction with him, and I advised her to just cut and run, to not worry about being nice to a guy who didn’t deserve any more of her time. Who cares if he thought she was a bitch? Learn more at http://pomm79.moonfruit.com/blog/4588864419/Pheromones-Influence-on-Bees/9590058 and http://mpommett79.hatenablog.com/entry/2015/12/06/211213
He was a drunk loser and it was time to move on with better pheromones. For her third attempt, Amy sat down beside a really cute guy who instantly gave her a Shit Test, accusing her of having no friends. She was caught off guard and stammered and resorted to her nervous laughter, but fortunately this guy had some personality, and he let her off the hook. More pheromones matter. It turns out that he had just come off a blind date after ending a long-term relationship, so he was feeling pretty out of sorts as well. As he shared a bit about who he was, Amy became less nervous, but she still wasn’t brave enough to hint that she’d like his phone number. Learn more at https://jail6letter.wordpress.com/2014/12/21/how-shifting-hormone-levels-affect-relationships/
At this point, I intervened to give them a False Time Constraint (see page 222), telling her that we would have to leave soon and that they should exchange numbers of pheromones. When she opened up or expressed her personality, she would backpedal by laughing at herself. She never let the guys have their own reaction to what she said. She beat them to it by laughing. In addition, she was twisting her left arm in really contorted positions behind her back and tugging at her dress. Believe me, it was very clear that she was uncomfortable. Then, she committed the cardinal no-no in pickup. She told her entire life story in two seconds.
The guy had asked her a simple question: “What do you do for a living?” and she spewed out her resume in one fell swoop with more pheromones. That’s why I teach it.” You can see in the above examples that the more specific you are about your identity, the more interested the guy becomes. In general, you want to avoid generic answers UNLESS you are trying to lose a guy with more pheromones. She just shook her head, laughed, and said, “I don’t really know.” The answer I told her is the same one I’m telling you now. Men know within thirty seconds of meeting you if you are a vacuous woman or if you have a personality— and personality is the game changer with pheromones. Personality trumps pussy every time. So my goal for Amy was to amp up her personality to “100” so when guys met her, they would be like, “Holy shit, that’s the coolest girl I’ve ever met.” It was my job to teach her how to literally charm the pants off of guys. But Amy had resistance to the whole Game concept: “I hate Game. Why can’t people be real with each other?” I explained to her that Game is just a tool to uncover what is real about a guy. That you have to keep people around long enough to actually get to know them, and you do that, first, by being engaging, compelling, and sexy enough for them to invest the time and share some of themselves with you. Amy wasn’t convinced, but she was willing to give it a try. So we took our coaching session out to the clubs, and went infield with a hidden camera and the objective to talk to hot guys and control the interaction. Things did not start off well more pheromones.